Some guys would wear their best custom dress shirts when they go on a date, but when they found out their date is a single mother, they lose interest. There are some guys who are not so ecstatic about dating an unmarried woman who already has a baby, no matter how attractive they look on their dress shirts and mini skirts on their date, since some men think this kind of women are already un-pure. And the thought they had a bad experience with their previous relationship will make them generalize that single mothers are not ideal wives or girlfriends because many of them have a happy-go-lucky kind of life, which resulted to their being a single mother.

However, there are some guys who are rather understanding and thus, more open minded with the idea of dating single mothers. These guys were able to understand what are the troubles and pains single mothers had not just in their previous relationship but also in bringing up their babies. These guys would dress, as they wear their best mens dress shirts to impress their date.

 There are good and bad sides to everything. In dating a single mother, there is still a chance that she is still unable to get over her previous relationship, but was just searching to some diversion to forget him, which is a negative factor in a relationship. Guys should not generalize this situation since not all single mothers are like that. We are just hoping to pin point every single scenario. 

 Since they have bigger and more complicated experiences compared to singles or women who haven’t tried giving birth, single mothers are usually more mature because of all the pains and troubles they underwent. Moreover, the responsibility of a single mother, which is to serve both as the mother and father to her baby is a difficult task to do. This will make her even more mature as a person. Plus, her baby will be an additional plus point in your relationship. After all, babies are really cute   .

Guys should remember that bad experiences either makes a person grow or become bitter depending on how they look at the situation of their lives, therefore, men should not generalize their perception about single mothers, but rather get to know them better before judging them.